Don't get me wrong, Tinder and I had a great time for a time, but then my kids got old enough to swipe right and as I know too well, everyone gets a boner for a MILF. I can't get into all of that.
I also don't like that dudes on tinder seem to think that a hook up is code for FWB. Nah, a hook up is just a hook up. A one off. An audition for future rounds. Acceptable to ghost for any reason.
My tried and true probably has always been AFF > https://adultfriendfinder.com/go/g1455694
Let me tell you why. IMO, it is honest. Call a spade a spade on AFF. Are you married? Great. Are you closet bi? Alrighty then. Are you only into group sex? Sign me up. I have never felt or sensed any judgement on AFF.
Before Taco Tom, there was Pharmacy Phil. He and I met on AFF. He was married, business professional, discrete, fun, until he wasn't. But he was great for a time. Just like any other site, you have to fight through the bots (women), but I never had that with guys. I haven't really been on AFF since I have been involved with Taco Tom, other than to just check in and see what is out there. I am fairly picky, so there has to be something "unique" about a profile to get me invested in more than 5 minutes of banter.
I think when I get back from my trip, I may update my profile. I think I might need just a little fun before winter sets in. I think the best cure to move away from Taco Tom is a good fucking from a random stranger. I just said on my stream the other day that I am not into random hook ups at this point in my life, but I will admit, I don't mind if it is someone who is married. I prefer less clingly, than more. Through all the ups and downs (my own emotional issues) with Taco Tom, I think I am going back to married again. I know that sounds bad, but I like definition, and someone being married creates solid boundaries and (lack of) feelings. I can get down with that. We are cool to get down, but just as cool to not. Pharmacy Phil was great for that, until it wasn't. Until he was a married man trying to lock down a single woman, and then became an unmarried man. Talk about an unexpected entanglement.
Have you checked it out? I don't slut stuff I don't support. Adult friend finder has lots of options that equal discete and I am a big fan of that. If you don't have an account and want to check it out, def use my link >> https://adultfriendfinder.com/go/g1455694 I get credit if you do that.
You may see a lot of these tricky little Jenni endorsements over the next few weeks. Please click them. More on the why next time - xoxo Jenni
Oh, and hey, I added a tip option on my LINK.T.REE if you are one of these fellas that doesn't have a CB or a TTM account and feel like you want to tip in some way.
P.S. - Another great day of vacay. I could have done without the rain the mini frogs, but overall, still very happy to be anywhere but home, and tomorrow is a new day.
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