Transparency

Someone asked me this morning if there was anyone that I wouldn't want to know about the sexy side hustled. After thinking long and hard, my answer is no. I am not ashamed of anything I do, or have done, or have yet to do. I live my life however I want to live it. I have always been this way. I live very transparently. I have no secrets in my life.

Once upon a time, I did have secrets. There probably are always things that you would prefer not be advertised about yourself. I gave that up. Freedom changed my life. I own my shit. If I did it, I own it. Right or wrong, I am the most accountable person most people will ever meet.

This is a lot for most people to accept. Have you heard the line, ask me no questions, I will tell you no lied. I am like that to people. I ask people very few questions, because I don't trust most people to be honest. There is also the line of, I'm an open book. I fall under that one, BUT...not if you don't ask. Most things I am pretty candid about, but I am not a total oversharer. Sometimes you know where that line is. To my best friend I will say, dang, I had the best O on chaturbate this morning. I wouldn't volunteer that to my boss, but if he asked, I would be honest.

I don't know where the line stops and starts sometimes, but I know that freedom feels good. I know that not living in fear of people's reactions or judgements is amazing, cause I don't give a fuck. I own what I do. I chose it. Some things I continue to choose. I have no shame about any of it.

Same thing with the kids. I don't want them to watch me stream, but I wouldn't lie about it. I don't want to set that precedent with them, that you should be dishonest about it. I also will add to that, that streaming isn't illegal. I am not ashamed that I masturbate with men. If you wanna know my honest thought, it is a hell of a lot safer, sexually speaking, than going on the tinder benders I used to go on.

So with all that said, I encourage everyone to live their own lives, anyway they want, as long as they are not harming themselves or others. We only get one life. Be honest. Be transparent. The feeling of being free in your existence is amazing!